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Stephan Alan Mesner

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[December 30, 2025]  LINCOLN — It is with great sadness that the Mesner family says goodbye to their husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend, Stephan Alan Mesner, 71 of Lincoln, Illinois. He passed away at St. Clara’s Rehab and Senior Care on December 27, 2025.

Service: The family will have a Celebration of Steve’s life at a future date.

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It is with great sadness that the Mesner family says goodbye to their husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend, Stephan Alan Mesner, 71 of Lincoln, Illinois. He passed away at St. Clara’s Rehab and Senior Care on December 27, 2025.

Steve was born in Chicago, Illinois on April 19, 1954 to Anthony Rudolph and Shirley June (Hall) Mesner. He married Debra (Weber) Rutherford on November 19, 1982 in Bloomington, Illinois, she survives.

Steve is also survived by his four children, Nicholas (Kate) Rutherford, of Lincoln, Rory Mesner of Marble, Colorado, Michael (Tara) Mesner of Lincoln and Katie Mesner, also of Lincoln. Steve had seven grandchildren including Colton Mesner, Andrew and Kylie Rutherford, Kahmari and Kazlyn Mesner and Garrett and Leighton Mesner.

His sister, Cynthia Skirtich and sister-in-law, Sandy (Weber) Bumpus and brother-in-law, Stephen (Patty) Weber survive him along with many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.

He was preceded in death by one son, Scott, his mother and father, Anthony Rudolph and Shirley (Hall) Mesner and two brothers, John and Lawrence Mesner. One brother-in-law, Gary Skirtich and one sister-in-law, Jeanetta Mesner.

Steve graduated from Oak Park/River Forest High School before moving to ElPaso, Illinois. He worked at Shell Chemical, then G. E. before meeting his wife and moving to Lincoln to work at Turris Coal Company. At the age of 45 Steve changed jobs and finished his working career at “the Bottle Factory“, St. Gobain Glass.

He was a good provider. He was a good man. A loving husband, father and grandfather. A good friend. Every year we loaded up the kids for a vacation to such places as Niagara Falls, Myrtle Beach or just Lake Michigan, until one by one they started their own lives and stopped going. Then he and Debbie took time together and took their own trips. They were all very special times.

Steve was an avid Green Bay Packer fan. He loved to Golf, shoot pool and eat. Always wondering what his next meal would be, even in his last days at St. Clara’s.

Steve chose to be cremated and be sprinkled in his old haunts in Chicago.

The family will have a Celebration of Steve’s life at a future date.

Our thanks to all of you that helped to give Steve a happy and fulfilled life.

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